Even people who don’t like to be fussed over tend to appreciate small gestures. Gifts, whether made up of physical materials or time together, provide a way to show gratitude and thankfulness.
For a Milestone
Someone you care about has graduated, passed an exam, or is celebrating a birthday. How do you acknowledge that specific achievement? If you’re giving physical gifts, consider giving celebratory flowers Saint Louis MO, chocolates, or accessories to use at a new job. Maybe this person has continually asked you not to give any gifts for specific occasions. When that’s the case, ask the person for ideas before suggesting something. Your friend might want to go hiking to break free from hours of studying at a desk. Accept the offer with joy. Celebrate in the ways that your friends want to celebrate.
For the Hard Worker
Do you have a hardworking friend who does so much without receiving any gratitude? You don’t need to wait for a specific date to let the person know how much the work matters. Think of how you feel when someone thanks you. It feels great when people say “thank you” after you open the door. Doesn’t it? How does it feel when people thank you for bigger things? It gives you a positive feeling. So, when you spend time with a friend who works long hours and receives only a few “thank yous,” say something. Bring a card with kind words from others. Perhaps the work is unpaid. If this is the case, and it’s something your friend wouldn’t mind, share it when local news stations or community papers ask for names of those who enrich the lives of others.
Whenever you have the opportunity to show appreciation or say kind things, do so. Little, positive actions have a cumulative, meaningful impact. Smile.
